I think I've touched upon this once or twice before while blogging (or at least thought about it a lot,) but I have to reiterate how neat it is to have a daughter. As much as my traditional Asian side would like to have a son to carry on the family name (I'm currently lobbying Helen to consider another baby in the future), the bond between a daddy and daughter is pretty special. Someone said to me I should feel happier that we had a girl than a boy, since the girl may clash somewhat with her mom as she gets older, whereas there will be no such competition with me and my daughter. I'll just give her whatever she wants :)
The look that the baby gives me when I hold her is pretty fantastic. It is one of pure love, loyalty, safety and comfort. It makes me want to be a good father. And while I'm sure Helen feels as strong a bond with her, their budding relationship is different.
Parents, do you think there is something to this whole 'opposite gender connection' with your kids? Moms, do you feel a special bond with your sons, and dads with your daughters? Or is it just as good regardless of whether your baby is a girl or boy?
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